Love Sprinkles

Something’s I have been dying to write about that have happened lately. But after mulling the conversations over in my head, I realized that it’s probably not best if I actually put them on here. Which stinks, because I think they have good lessons in them. I struggle everyday with doing what’s best (what your suppose to do) and what I’d like to do. Reacting to situations is hard, and most of the time we react before thinking about it. Running on our emotions! Emotions are strong and vicious sometimes. Over powering our knowing of what’s right in our conscious. And I’ll be honest here; sometimes I forget that and don’t do the right thing. I’m not proud of that, we shouldn’t be proud of anything period. So I thought I could talk about what I learned and what I’d like to keep trying to hold true to my everyday life.


First, our emotions. They are powerful and overwhelming; they can take over clouding our judgment in anything. We also take offense if someone does something that we don’t agree with. Or says something we that we don't like and become cold towards them forgetting that just like we are allowed to feel that way, they are allowed to not think like we do. We don’t always understand it, and we don’t always want to be okay with it. We WANT to change their minds. Because ultimately we think they are wrong. When in reality they could still be right in their own sorta way. Seeing the situation in a different view causing what they believe to be right. If we hold our breath for a minute and then ask them why they believe that, we could learn something. It might even settle our stomachs. We shouldn’t be offended because they believe differently; it’s like when you’re married. You and your husband will not always see eye to eye. Sometimes we agree to disagree. And the final words being. “Okay” those four letters do not mean “okay” I agree. They mean that’s fine, if that’s what you say, alright conversation over, okay I ‘m fine with what you believe but I still don’t believe that. And finally “will see bout that”, ha-ha which with my husband usually means that. Not because I think I’m right, because I’m not always. But we usually have to wait for something to happen to find our answer on who’s right. And the best part that cracks me up is when we both end up being right. Laughing at ourselves and saying “hmmm”. It’s not about being right or wrong, really I have to clarify that. Our “will see bout that’s” are usually about whether the actions. Ex: we pass something with a price I say it’s something he says it’s something. Finally we say nothing (that’s our “will see bout that”) and when we pass one of us will say “oh it’s .......; you were right”…..and then that’s it there isn’t any gloating about it, there isn’t any “ewe I was right” we don’t rub it in each other’s face. Although, a joke has been made- team amylynn 4 team Scott 1. Ha-ha but honestly it’s silly and I appreciate that neither one of us holds it over the other, because that can be hurtful. We should have the same wanting with other folks like we do with our husbands. We want to make them happy we want to not fight with them, we want to have their approval, and fore most we try our hardest every day to make sure we try to understand them and our relationship. So for all relationships with people your level of eagerness should be the same. Well that’s what I believe anyways. “Love Sprinkle everyone you meet with LOVE or something they need that would mean love for them, even if it’s only for a moment, or something they can carry with them forever.